Dating im confused relationship advice Socailsex
Look, I am swimming in financial debt right now due to health issues, and I would never, ever, ask a woman – even a girlfriend of 12 months – to help me with my credit card bills. I would also advise you to avoid all sexual contact if you want to committed relationship until there is not only commitment, but a high level of communication, emotional intimacy and trust. You’ve just done the most intimate thing you can do with a person, and you don’t even know the dude.
I believe in that concept so much that I would even offer a pre nup agreement that she is not responsible for my debts. One of the major problems with having “physical intimacy” too early on in the relationship is that it confuses the relationship.
I'm not sure if I should keep her around as a friend or if I should be upset with I guess what seemed to be a rejection?
I just don't know why she pushed into it and backed out saying she'll develop feelings if it goes on longer. Basically right now I'm still talking to her as if nothing big happened but I'm not sure if I should keep her around in case because I was really into her if it happened or if I should just ignore her and move on?
Fast forward to our third date, we talk about life and everything is dandy and on the way driving her home she's clutched to my arm as I'm driving thinking this is gonna work out.She was a great gal, but not relationship material at that time. But also think aboutif that’s the kind of guy uppity want.Fortunately I didn’t do anything more than kissing her and got out of that thing. Most women want to be in a relationship with a guy that can if not provide, at least handle his own responsibilities I’m so sorry you went through that, he was clearly using you.“I don’t want to develop more feelings” and “not wanting to lead you on”.Imo it’s a way of saying, hey, I told you I’m not ready, we can still talk if you want but if this gets leads to more emotions at stake, I’m not responsible.