Dating beneath you
below their leagues, both intellectually and physically.
It's a super douchey question to ask someone in real life so here I am at /r/Ask Men: do you ever feel like you could do better and if you do, why don't you?
On this particular afternoon, he went to meet her for a quick coffee/lunch because he had some spare time. She decided that she wanted to eat at a pretty expensive restaurant.She was drunk at a party and some frat boy says "i'll take you home, we just have to stop at my dorm first." They had consensual sex, which I'm sure both were way too drunk to consent to, but whatever she said he didn't do anything to force her and she was a willing participant.We weren't exclusive at the time and it was a big factor in us continuing not to be. Generally not obvious at first but as their personalities start to show and you get to know them more, you realise they're nothing but a pretty face or hot body.I have dated all types of intelligence, all shapes and sizes and colors of women, and each has had their own positives and negatives.I often think I could do better, but I know I could also do worse. As long as the benefits outweigh the costs, we are cool in my book.
This is a worthless contribution, because this is basically describing the current dating dynamic, where the most common scenario is an attractive, young woman dating a successful older men. In light of that, my opinion is that if you are thinking in terms of league then you damn well better be dating within it or you're going to have a bad time.