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Mostly the article apologizes for the sex-negativity that is squicking another’s squee and for the fact that the original piece relied heavily on anecdotal evidence that is contrary to what actual statistics about anal sex have to say.But it’s not an uncommon stance lately, particularly after Gillian Flynn’s now-infamous “cool girl” rant from “Gone Girl” that says women who enjoy sex acts that may be perceived as male-appeasing fantasies, such as anal penetration, are faking their interest in order to attract and keep men in a competitive dating environment. I’m a woman who likes anal sex, and I’m going to turn the tables here and say I think it’s weird that you think that’s weird.Recently I came across an article posted on the Urban Dater written by a woman who just doesn’t believe women can actually enjoy anal sex.She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes of encouraging more women to spread their cheeks for the dicks of men everywhere.While there seems to be no data explicitly on female anal orgasms (shocking, I know.Like come on, it’s 2015), many women report that ass-fucking allows for a unique kind of G-spot stimulation that can be orgasmic in and of itself.
If someone tells me they like something, I am prone to believing them.Finally there are women who may enjoy anal sex because they enjoy pleasing their partners.(As a service-oriented submissive, I fall into this category, too.) And newsflash: It’s totally OK to enjoy something because you enjoy pleasing the person you’re with.Luckily the same philosophy I subscribe to that advocates for women to have the right to enjoy the kind of sex they like without being judged for it also ascribes the same right to men. And yet it is that very taboo, that shame that is caught up in our asses, that is the very reason I find anal sex so important.It’s about accepting your partner’s (and your own) full self in bodily form.
(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?